‘Etiquette’ is a loaded word. What really is it, anyway?
Does it really matter? Do you really need to care?
We are long past the Bridgerton era and the stuffy and archaic ways of thinking about it. No longer is etiquette about how you hold your fork, but, rather about how you make people feel. Etiquette can help reduce misunderstandings and confusion in social situations, making everyone feel comfortable and respected.
At the core, it is about being thoughtful and considerate of other peoples’ feelings. We rarely remember details of events long after they happen, yet we always remember how we felt.
We have all experienced dreaded social interactions and moments where we are left unsure of what to do or say. It feels like time stands still in these situations. Etiquette is also about minimizing awkward and cringe-worthy moments and showing respect. Putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and trying to make others feel comfortable is never out of style.